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  Do you have any "one-liners" for drive-by witnessing?

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i am looking for things i can say in passing, when i meet some of my jw friends.

  we used to attend meetings, but have not been officially recognized yet, as apostates.

  we were good and curious students, but fell away and were choked out by weeds.. since i will be renewing my bible student status soon, i am hoping this will open more windows into the organization.

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  Black Sheep

  The questions you are liking are ones that you feel are important.

  You need questions that they feel are important ... and that you already know the official answer/non-answer for and how to deal with that.
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  The door bell rang today

  by ABibleStudent in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  just before i started undressing to take a shower to go to an appointment, the door bell rang.

  i thought about not answering the door, but then thought what the hell it could be my neighbor, who is a widow and in her 70's, needing some help.. at the door was a frail man about 85+ years old dressed in a shabby sport coat, shirt, tie, and slacks, and a skinny woman about 75+ years old in a long dress that needed to be ironed.

  as i grabbed my dog to prevent him from jumping at the screen door, which was partially open, and beating the couple with his tail and making them fall, i thought what am i going to do.

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  Black Sheep

  Why should the children of their converts suffer while they get off scott free?
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  Faders shunned now?

  by Sammy Jenkis in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hi all so my family had their c.a.

  last weekend and my mother dropped this one on me, she'll now be treating me as a df'd person per info she received from a talk at the assembly.

  apparently a fader should be treated as "bad association" given the fact they up and left the holy "truth" to splash around in vomit.. .

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  Black Sheep

  Apparently a fader should be treated as "bad association" given the fact they up and left the holy "truth" to splash around in vomit.

  Why the vomit reference?

  If you want to fade .... keep your trap shut and just fade. If you tell her why you are fading .... your chances of being shunned go through the roof.
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  Discussion w/ Wife: I Welcome Your Suggestions

  by breakfast of champions in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  so these last few wts have definitely eroded my wife's faith in the org.

  she is definitely seeing the bs, and i even overheard her talking openly about it to a family member.

  good for her!.

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  Black Sheep

  Don't let a JW decide the subject unless they have put their foot in it and given you one that you wanted.

  Generally, the subject you should be discussing is the one they have just used a distraction tactic to avoid.
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  Do you detect an underlying sadness ?

  by Phizzy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  whenever i talk to jw's, and even in some of the jw official videos, i detect a definite vibe of sadness coming off these people.. i am very sensitive to "atmospheres" and to peoples emotional state, you wouldn't think so, because more often than not i do not react to what i detect, i just let people get on with it.. but i do get this feeling that they are sad, probably because very, very, very deep down they realise that it is all false, maybe ?.

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  Black Sheep

  After the funeral for the spouse that they were promised they would live forever with they have to deal with the damage from the doctrine that says that, even if they, themselves, make it through the GT, their partner is to remain celebate and the promise for them is eternity without each other.

  Constant parroting of how nice it will be when they are resurrected is hiding their trauma of knowing that even a quick fondle with their loved one will be forever seen as a sin by their stroppy little god. Their promised 'reward' is more like a punishment, they know they are getting closer to their funerals, and every day is Groundhog Day, with Paradise no closer than it was yesterday.
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  Was I too harsh?

  by chrisuk in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hello, first let me apologixe for both my spelling and my grammer in advance, both are not my strong points.. i'll keep this short.

  since i've been a child my mother has studied on and off with jw's ( i'm now 34) so i've been around it most of my life, i studied on and off myself for around 10 years.

  thank's to this site and jwfacts i'll never study or step foot inside a kingdom hall again.

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  Black Sheep

  If you want him to leave you alone, ask a question that he doesn't have a sensible answer for, then refuse to let him weasel his way out of giving you an answer. Make him feel guilty for every trick he uses to fool you.

  If he ever tries to talk about a different Bible subject, inform him that he hasn't answered your original question and you want to know why .... right now .... plus you still want it answered .... now would be a good time.
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  Need advice: Witnessing to a JW at my door

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been waiting for this moment, and it has finally come!

  i was actually in the middle of typing in the other thread, about householders who caused you doubts, when a jw rang my doorbell.

  my barking german shepherd didnt scare him away, but did knock all his books out of his hand and onto a wet porch, which i really felt bad about.

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  Black Sheep

  I told him I'd been doing some research about TTATT, and that ...

  Resist the temptation to show your hand.It is better to appear naive than to try and impress him with your repository of anti-JW 'propaganda'

  Write your questions down by all means, but don't ask them. The only questions worth asking a JW are the ones you already know their rote answers for, and how to expose those answers as fraudulent. If you don't know what his answer should be, research it in their literature, or here, whatever, just don't ask him.

  If his answer isn't in keeping with WT doctrine, don't ask us if he was correct until you have sent him off to get the evidence to back up his assertion. It doesn't matter if he is correct. He needs a few 'wins' to keep him coming back, but if he is wrong, he needs to do the research to prove it to himself far more than he needs your reasoning for why you don't believe him.
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  Need advice: Witnessing to a JW at my door

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been waiting for this moment, and it has finally come!

  i was actually in the middle of typing in the other thread, about householders who caused you doubts, when a jw rang my doorbell.

  my barking german shepherd didnt scare him away, but did knock all his books out of his hand and onto a wet porch, which i really felt bad about.

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  Black Sheep

  A friend of mine told me that her brother, an athiest, kept two young JW men coming back for two years. He knew nothing about JW, or their doctrines, he just kept asking questions. Eventually they left the church.

  My point is, it's not a quick process. Most JWs have been indoctrinated for their whole lives, so don't expect to see a result in a thirty minute conversation.
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  For Anyone With the WT CD ROM

  by breakfast of champions in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  my curiosity is killing me, and i don't have access to a cd rom right now, so here's my question:.

  how many "hits" does "144000" get in the magazines over the past 5 years or so?.

  my prediction is that mention of "the 144000" has been decreasing steadily over the past few years, as they move towards phasing out a literal interpretation of this scripture.. thanks,.

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  Black Sheep

  They are printing less, and smaller, mags, so you might get similar results for "and"
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  Need advice: Witnessing to a JW at my door

  by Faithful Witness in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have been waiting for this moment, and it has finally come!

  i was actually in the middle of typing in the other thread, about householders who caused you doubts, when a jw rang my doorbell.

  my barking german shepherd didnt scare him away, but did knock all his books out of his hand and onto a wet porch, which i really felt bad about.

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  Black Sheep

  If you really want to witness to them, don't do anything to frighten them off. They are not on your doorstep to listen to you, they are there to save your life by teaching you their religion and you need to let them think that they are doing that. You must be a prospective convert, not an opposer, a sheep, not a mythbuster.

  You make too many statements for him to take issue with and some of those statements are just your subjective opinion and are debatable. e.g. "Oh! So you have been through this kind of upheaval before... I think this is going to be a historic time in your religion's history.". They don't see it that way at all. All through their history there have been changes, all high control groups do it. They are conditioned to it. If you are going to express an opinion, try to make it one that you already know they agree with.

  Ask a question you know he will want to answer, then shut up and make him do the talking, the thinking, the research. If you have asked a good question he will use all manner of tactics to not answer it and you have to really be on the ball if you are not going to let him off the hook. You need him to want to give you a sensible answer to that question, to make impossible promises that he thinks he can keep, statements that he can't find literature he trusts that support them, etc..